Hello all, for any users / friend that has had a email from my 'Ex' as follows, Oh I will add my comments / reply in my defence starting with (AB):

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(The EX) would u like to know exactly what alan has done to his own children. he has neglected them for 18 months for another woman and her children.

(AB) I pay my child support and only ever wanted my children in my life, that will never happen and I am sorry that my children miss out on their dad's love and support. Please listen to the you tube voice mails for the proof, my children hate now me because she turned my children againest me like she said she would, pure evil. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PK1eCmuahDc (link to the voice mail that says it all)

(The EX) he has been hatefull toward them, left his 15yr old daughter gasping for air having a serious panic attack taking the ambulance crew 45 mins to calm her, he has mailed me telling me his kids are freaks, he has mailed me telling me my young daughter should die. do u still think he is a good person.

(AB) Taken out of context, if I remember right my partner was emailed being told that she is going to die in a car accident and that 'she had better watch out!' As for my daughter, panic attack, grow up.  

(The EX) he is a liar and a nasty peice of work just like his vial girlfriend
(AB) Bitter and jealous, see more nasty words about my partner. Slander, hmm?

(The EX) he doesnt even bother to send his children birthday or christmas cards.
(AB) Err, I have posted a you tube video showing me posting my son's birthday card and leaving him a birthday message, seems he didn't get. This woman is totally delusional and I am sorry if she has contacted you. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-r1JqbgmJg (link to me posting my sons birthday card.)

(The EX) i can keep going if you wish
(AB) So can I, I have more voice mails......

(The EX) oh by the way hes being investigated for fraud!
(AB) News to me, but my ex should know that benefit fraud is a crime!!!

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Best regards
Alan